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Extreme Esteem
By Murray Fuhrer

4/10/16	Unfulfilled Expectations
4/18/16	The Need to Be
4/24/16	Step by Step
5/8/16	Winning the Race
5/23/16	Choices and Illusions
6/9/16	A Work in Progress
6/12/16	The Brick and the Balloon
8/16/16	Whatever We Master
8/23/16	Making a Difference
9/11/16	Building Relationships
9/18/16	Angry People
9/23/16	The Wall
9/29/16	Lorne
10/8/16	Unconscious Competence
10/20/16	Spooks Forest
10/27/16	Things of Value
11/8/16	Attachments to the Past
11/17/16	I'm here and you're safe
11/24/16	Get out of your own Way
11/30/16	Hope
12/5/16	The Comfort Zone
12/15/16	A Better Menu Selection
12/22/16	Measuring Up
12/29/16	My Great Defender
1/5/17	Opportunities
1/12/17	Clarity and Assumptions
1/19/17	Healthy Competition
1/26/17	Acquiring new Skills
2/1/17	Purging the Past
2/9/17	Confessions of a Closet Perfectionist
2/15/17	Ego Building VS Self-Esteem Building
2/22/17	Communication
3/2/17	Appearances
3/9/17	Perceptual Shift
3/15/17	The Tapestry of Self-Esteem
3/22/17	Self-Awareness
3/29/17	The Elephant in the Room
4/6/17	Negative Benefits
4/12/17	Trading Places
4/19/17	The Fruits of Open-Mindedness
4/26/17	Teachability
5/3/17	Evolve Your Brain
5/10/17	Perceptions of Safety
5/17/17	The Dream
5/25/17	The Speed of Change
5/31/17	The Scarcity Mindset
6/8/17	Treads and Risers
6/14/17	Family Dynamics
6/21/17	The Enduring Power of Friendship
6/28/17	The Power of the Moment
7/5/17	Emotional Vampires
7/12/17	Growth versus Protection
7/21/17	Purpose
7/27/17	Life isn't always fair
8/3/17	Risking
8/9/17	The Shift
8/18/17	Peeling the Onion
8/30/17	Negative Outlook = Negative Vision
9/7/17	Ego Driven
9/13/17	Firewalk with Me
9/22/17	Beliefs that Bind
9/27/17	Replenishment
10/5/17	Humour and Self-Esteem
10/12/17	Resistance
10/17/17	Self-Criticism
10/24/17	Masks
11/1/17	Imaginary Wolves
11/7/17	Re-Imagine Yourself
11/16/17	A Policy of Change
11/22/17	The Theatre of Perception
11/30/17	Unfulfillable Desire
12/12/17	Reinterpreting the Past
12/20/17	Cherish the Moment
12/27/17	Where's the fire?
1/3/18	Waiting and Wishing
1/9/18	Tuck's Story
1/17/18	What are you known for?
1/24/18	Force of Habit
1/30/18	Clearing the Mind
2/7/18	The Garden of Your Mind
2/13/18	Storm of Emotion
2/21/18	Wake Up!
3/1/18	Resistance is Futile
3/7/18	Pay it forward
3/14/18	The Way We Were
3/21/18	U-Turns
3/27/18	Lucid Living
4/4/18	Assumptions
4/11/18	A Better Strategy
4/20/18	A Cup of Coffee
4/25/18	The Art of Really Flying
5/3/18	Do You Want It or Just Need It?
5/9/18	Perseverance
5/17/18	Acceptance and Approval
5/23/18	Limitations
5/31/18	Prove it
6/6/18	Bargaining with the Past
6/13/18	Paradise Lost
6/20/18	Precious Moments
6/27/18	Living on Purpose
7/4/18	The Chuck It List
7/16/18	The Long Way Home
7/25/18	Three Teachers
8/1/18	Charity
8/8/18	Escape
8/13/18	The Wreck
8/23/18	Reflection
8/29/18	Loneliness
9/7/18	Beginner's Mind
9/11/18	Taking Perspective
9/18/18	Desperation
9/25/18	Regret
10/2/18	Making Your Mark
10/10/18	Rocks and Boulders
10/17/18	Stand Up for Yourself
10/24/18	Talents and Gifts
10/29/18	Flights of Fantasy
11/7/18	Don't Get Above Your Raisin'
11/14/18	Accountability
11/21/18	Guilty by Association
11/28/18	The Power of Reflection
12/6/18	Loneliness
12/13/18	Relics from the Past
12/14/18	Get Used To It
12/20/18	Demolition Derby
12/28/18	Editorial Comment
1/2/19	The Outsider
1/9/19	Double Standard
1/17/19	Precious Memories
1/24/19	The Book of Beliefs
1/31/19	Speak To Me
2/7/19	Approval Seeking
2/14/19	Keep Me Safe
2/20/19	The Power of Vulnerability
3/1/19	A Room Filled With Balloons
3/7/19	Ego Driven
3/14/19	Help Us Change the World
3/21/19	Defence Mechanisms
3/27/19	Delaying Gratification
4/4/19	Resisting Resistance
4/11/19	Putting Yourself Out There
4/18/19	Old Threats
4/24/19	Pando: The Power of One
5/5/19	Gaining Perspective
5/11/19	Embracing the Unexpected
5/23/19	Close Encounters
5/29/19	Earning the Right
6/6/19	If I want your advice
6/14/19	The Four Stages of Learning
6/21/19	Something from Nothing
6/26/19	Show Up Ready
7/3/19	Own Your Life!
7/12/19	Resourcefulness
7/19/19	Potential Unrealized
7/25/19	The Four Cs
8/1/19	Unleash Your Passion
8/8/19	Resentment
8/16/19	When to Persist and When to Walk Away
8/25/19	Casting Call
9/19/19	Non-Compliance
9/23/19	Self-Esteem and Parenting
10/1/19	Age and Self-Esteem
10/17/19	How to Live an Extraordinary Life
10/25/19	Self-Confidence
11/3/19	Moments of Insight
11/7/19	Hope
11/15/19	Foundations
11/23/19	Honeysuckle
12/1/19	Dark Places
12/7/19	Graduation Day
12/12/19	Appreciate the Moment
12/20/19	Illusion of Control
12/26/19	The Truth of this Moment
1/3/20	Letting Go
1/9/20	Coping with Loneliness
1/19/20	Acquisition of Wisdom
1/25/20	The Zen Zone
1/31/20	Trust
2/6/20	Resistance
2/13/20	Get to the Point
2/29/20	What is it?
3/7/20	Life is like a box of chocolates
3/7/20	Moving Away From/Drawn Toward
3/10/20	Fear of Failure
3/10/20	Fear of Failure
3/13/20	Planting Good Seeds
3/17/20	Moving Away From/Drawn Toward
3/20/20	Your Best Investment
3/28/20	Chronic Illness & Self Esteem
4/4/20	Strategies
4/10/20	Knowledge into Wisdom
4/18/20	Garnering Attention
4/25/20	The Victim Mentality
5/3/20	Storytelling
5/10/20	Compassion
5/20/20	Fight or Flight
5/24/20	The Good Parent
6/6/20	Adaptability
6/16/20	Uncommon Courtesy
6/23/20	Bad Karma
6/28/20	Cultivating Contentment
7/6/20	The Power of Acknowledgement
7/26/20	Why should I care?
8/4/20	Do You Remember Me?
8/12/20	Rekindle Your Curiosity
8/17/20	The Treasure Chest
8/30/20	Diversions and Distractions
9/7/20	Self-Serving
9/16/20	Taken Advantage Of
9/27/20	Does that sound like me?
10/5/20	Hey, please notice me
10/17/20	Spatial Relation
10/24/20	Make friends with Fear
11/4/20	Monotony
11/16/20	What did you expect?
11/21/20	Out-of-Control Freaks
11/28/20	Bloom Where Youâ€™re Planted
12/6/20	Brilliant Ideas
12/15/20	False Impressions
12/24/20	Choosing Greatness
12/31/20	Reasons and Lessons
1/7/21	Compliance
1/14/21	Building Better Boundaries
1/21/21	Journalling
1/26/21	Temper Your Temper
2/5/21	The People We Admire
2/13/21	Are you listening?
2/20/21	Happy Endings
2/24/21	Sexy Self-Esteem
3/3/21	Inappropriate Behaviour
3/10/21	Emotional Abuse
3/21/21	Understanding Homeostasis
3/27/21	The Healing Power of Human Touch
4/8/21	Perseverance
4/18/21	Getting Unstuck
4/21/21	An Unused Life
5/1/21	Biased Filmmaking
5/8/21	Jumpstart
5/16/21	Live Your Passion
5/21/21	Breaking the Rules
5/27/21	Meditation
6/5/21	Financial Self-Esteem
6/14/21	Self-Esteem & Job Performance
7/4/21	Slip Sliding Away
7/12/21	Anecdotal Evidence
7/19/21	A Changeless Core
7/29/21	A Life of Reaction
8/5/21	Please Stand Up
8/12/21	Keeping Your Balance
8/19/21	Anxiety
9/5/21	Emotional Baggage
9/12/21	Indispensability
9/17/21	Automatic Compliance
9/24/21	Dark Tunnels
9/30/21	Testing the Fence
10/6/21	Pay it forward
10/14/21	Is Patience Out-of-Date?
10/20/21	Grateful People
10/26/21	Camera Shy
11/15/21	A Good Listener
11/26/21	Embracing the Unexpected
11/30/21	Perception
12/8/21	The Seekerâ€™s Path
12/16/21	Storytelling
12/22/21	Self-Esteem & Career Choice
12/29/21	Living a Better Life Story
1/6/22	False Wisdom
1/14/22	A Pocketful of Hope
1/21/22	Unrealistic Expectations
1/27/22	The Power of Gratitude
2/3/22	The Art of Listening
2/10/22	To Please the People
2/17/22	When the Pieces No Longer Fit
2/23/22	Hopelessness
3/3/22	Incompatibility
3/10/22	Fear of Failure
3/24/22	Moving Away From/Drawn Toward
3/30/22	As Easy as Riding a Bike!
4/4/22	Be Like a Dog with a Bone
4/13/22	Whatâ€™s Your Motivation?
4/20/22	Whoâ€™s to Blame?
4/30/22	Thank You for the Compliment
5/8/22	Lessons from the Bottle Depot
5/15/22	A World of Illusion
5/29/22	The Search for Self-Worth
5/29/22	The Search for Self-Worth
6/12/22	Writing a Better Life Story
6/15/22	Glorious Solitude
6/26/22	Understanding Choice & Consequences
7/10/22	Back to the Basics
7/19/22	Integration
7/26/22	Kowtowing and Subservience
8/4/22	Self-Esteem and a Better Memory
8/14/22	Thank you for being a Friend
8/25/22	Face it, deal with it and get over it!
9/4/22	Love and Self-Esteem
9/14/22	Self-Esteem & Fear of Failure
9/21/22	Self-Esteem Hacks
10/2/22	Learning to Smile Again
10/11/22	Perfectionism
10/18/22	Unnecessary Suffering
10/27/22	Speeding Through Life
11/5/22	What's the Attraction?
11/17/22	Requiem for the Nice Guy
11/29/22	Blame it on Bad Karma
12/19/22	The Power of Awe
1/2/23	Guilty as Charged
1/12/23	Early Programming
1/23/23	Reinforcement of Belief
1/30/23	What Do You Really, Truly Want?
2/7/23	Putting the â€œselfâ€ in responsibility
2/12/23	Clarifying Expectations
2/21/23	Effecting Change
2/28/23	Practice and Reflection
3/9/23	Masks and Secrets
3/20/23	The Pros and Cons of Excessive Niceness
3/29/23	Warning: Old Pattern Initiated
4/13/23	Building a Better Ego
4/19/23	Avoiding Conflict/Averting Criticism
4/27/23	Being Judgmental
5/8/23	Healing Childhood Trauma
5/16/23	The Search for Happiness
5/30/23	Making Mistakes
6/8/23	What did you Expect?
7/3/23	Transcending Hopelessness
7/11/23	A Victim of Victims
7/19/23	Could you please move!?
7/31/23	Appearances
8/8/23	Whatâ€™s Your Story?
8/20/23	Small Things Can Make a Big Difference
8/31/23	Blissful Ignorance
9/8/23	The Power of Kindness
9/19/23	The Price of Entitlement
9/27/23	The Enduring Power of Friendship
10/4/23	Perceptual Shift
10/9/23	Gaslighting: The Silent Assassin of Self-Esteem
10/22/23	The Power of Risking
10/29/23	Undiscussables: The Elephant in the Room
11/5/23	Deficiency Thinking
11/25/23	Reconciliation
12/7/23	Echoes of the Past
12/16/23	That's not fair!
12/27/23	The Quiet Battle: Overcoming an Inferiority Complex
1/4/24	The Search for Admirable Qualities
1/18/24	Passion & Purpose
1/25/24	Self-Esteem Versus Self-Confidence
2/2/24	Life Outside Your Comfort Zone
2/9/24	Self-Pity & Self Comparison
2/18/24	Self-Pity & Self-Esteem
2/26/24	Self-Esteem & Work
3/1/24	The Illusion of Perfectionism
3/11/24	Emotional Replenishment
3/18/24	Ode to Count Dracula
4/2/24	People Change
4/18/24	Condemned by a Fool
5/5/24	Embarrassment and Self-Esteem
5/15/24	Long Gone and Forgotten
5/23/24	Journey’s End
6/5/24	Beliefs that Bind
6/13/24	Peeling the Onion
6/17/24	Winning the Race
6/25/24	Incompatibilities
7/8/24	Seven Things Most People Take a Lifetime to Learn
7/15/24	Changing the World
7/29/24	The Way It Looks
8/7/24	Compliments
8/15/24	The Strangest Secret
8/26/24	The Way We See It
9/10/24	Passion vs. Commitment
10/2/24	Uprooting Core Beliefs
10/15/24	Leaving Your Imprint: The Power of Your Influence
10/28/24	The Devastating Effects of Sibling Abuse
11/9/24	The Transformational Impact of Warrior Training
11/20/24	Reasons for Being
11/26/24	Open Your Eyes!
12/11/24	Emotional Abuse
1/2/25	Early Childhood Experiences
1/7/25	Building Bridges
1/12/25	Defence Mechanisms
1/15/25	Taking Perspective
1/28/25	Being a Highly Sensitive Person
2/4/25	Two Faces of Hope
2/12/25	Emotionally Immature Language
2/18/25	The Paradox of Living: A Self-Esteem Perspective
2/28/25	Delaying Gratification
3/8/25	Joy Faces
3/19/25	The Lie That Whispers: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
3/26/25	The Carnival Watch
3/31/25	Some Things Must Emerge from Within
4/9/25	Battlefields
4/15/25	The Beans Are Not the Meal
4/27/25	Bernie’s Magic Shoes
5/10/25	The Day I Lost Rex (and a Piece of Myself)
5/22/25	Before the Fax Machine
5/29/25	The Wisdom of Never Growing Up
6/5/25	Relics from the Past
6/17/25	Desperation
6/26/25	When You’re Not Allowed to Have an Opinion